Welcome to Turtle Dove Counseling

This isn't a journal style xanga, rather it will be a resource collection.  I work in the profession of counseling and want to share some of my knowledge and what's available on the web on the subject with you.  (Disclaimer:  I do not provide counseling via this site).

I work mental health specialist for a mental health agency in the Columbia River Gorge area. Before that I was a Child & Family Therapist (LCSW=Licensed Clinical Social Worker) for over 10 years in the Portland/Beaverton/Vancouver area. In my current position, I provide mental health services to all ages. I have a B.A. '87 in psychology from Reed College, and a Master's in Social Work '92 from Portland State University. I have been an LCSW since 1997.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Newer Blog

I've sort of moved to a more active, current blog over here:

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Thursday, October 23, 2008

NLP Eye Movements

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If you would like to have some fun with your friends or family, here are some other questions you can take turns asking each other - or you can make up your own.

Visual Remembered
What is the colour of the shirt you wore yesterday?
Which of your friends has the shortest hair?

Visual Constructed
What would your room look like if it were painted yellow with big purple circles?
Can you imagine the top half of a tiger on the bottom half of an elephant?

Auditory Remembered
What does your best friend’s voice sound like?
Which is louder, your door bell or your telephone?

Auditory Constructed
What will your voice sound like in 10 years?
What would it sound like if you played your two favourite pieces of music at the same time?

Auditory Digital
What is something you continually tell yourself?
What are your thoughts about this article?

Kinesthetic
What does it feel like to walk barefoot on a cool sandy beach?
What does it feel like when you rub your fingers on sandpaper?

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Monday, July 14, 2008

codependency links

Inner Child Healing
About.com guide Phylameana lila Desy has compiled a library of links about healing the "inner child."

Codependence?
Some of the nicest people I know are codependent. They always smile, never refuse to do a favor. They are happy and bubbly all the time. They understand others and have the ability to make people feel good. People like them! So, what is wrong with this?
 
Can Al-Anon Really Help?
Are you affected by someone else's drinking? Here are 20 questions that may help you determine if Al-Anon could benefit you.
 
Codependence as Delayed Stress Syndrome
Codependence is a very vicious and powerful form of Delayed Stress Syndrome, writes Robert Burney.
 
Codependency Questionaire
A list of 20 questions aimed at determining if you have codependency tendencies, from the Alcoholics for Christ web site.
 
Co-dependents Anonymous
Co-Dependents Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women whose common purpose is to develop healthy relationships.
 
Codependents Anonymous
A text file explaining the 12-step support group for codependency.
 
Dance of Suffering, Shame, and Self-abuse
"Codependence is an incredibly powerful, insidious, and vicious disease, because it is ingrained in our core relationship with ourselves."
 
Emotional Honesty and Responsibility
The recovery process, and the process of finding some balance, is multi-leveled and multi-dimensional, writes Robert Burney.
 
Empowerment & Victimization
"As long as we look outside of Self with a capital S to find out who we are, to define ourselves and give us self-worth, we are setting ourselves up to be victims."
 
Feeling the Feelings
"It is through healing our inner child, by grieving the wounds that we suffered, that we can change our behavior patterns and clear our emotional process."
 
Gratitude - a Vital Tool
We all have much to be grateful for, to give thanksgiving for, if we just choose to look at the half of the glass that is full.
 
Grave Emotional and Mental Disorders
Unfortunately, the Twelve Steps as practiced in AA are not always enough, writes Robert Burney.
 
How Co-dependency is Often Experienced
My good feelings about who I am stem from being liked by you. My good feelings about who I am stem from receiving approval from you.
 
I am responsible for...
" An excerpt from "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie.
 
Learning to Love Our Selves
"Learning to have internal boundaries is a dynamic process that involves three distinctly different, but intimately interconnected, spheres of work."
 
Partners & Paradox
Unless you've been through it yourself, it's hard to imagine the emotional tangles that life serves up to someone who is involved with an alcoholic.
 
Serenity and Expectations
Robert Burney says, "The most insidious level of expectations for me had to do with my expectations of myself."
 
Stinking Thinking
The Joy2MeU web site lists some traits of stinking thinking including black-and-white thinking, magical thinking, and "starring in the soap opera."
 
Truth vs Emotional Truth
Feelings are real -- they are emotional energy that is manifested in our body but they are not necessarily fact.
 
The Alcohologenic Parent
There are two distinct experiences for adults who are trying to overcome dysfunction and struggling to build strength and health in their lives.
 
What Love Is Not
If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you, says Robert Burney in the first part of a series on "What Love Is."

Love Addiction - obsessive and pathological relationships.

If the things in the list above sound familiar to you I highly recommend Pia Melody's book Facing Love Addiction.

By Pia Mellody
Setting Functional Boundaries.


Friday, July 11, 2008

Dissociative Disorders

 

Wikipedia: "Dissociative Identity Disorder, as defined by the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), is a psychiatric diagnosis that describes a condition in which a single person displays multiple distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment.[1] The diagnosis requires that at least two personalities routinely take control of the individual's behavior with an associated memory loss that goes beyond normal forgetfulness; in addition, symptoms cannot be due to substance abuse or medical condition. Earlier versions of the DSM named the condition multiple personality disorder (MPD), and the term is still used by the ICD-10. There is controversy around the existence, the possible causes, the prevalence across cultures, and the epidemiology of the condition."

"Multiple personality disorder (MPD) is a psychiatric disorder characterized by having at least one "alter" personality that controls behavior. The "alters" are said to occur spontaneously and involuntarily, and function more or less independently of each other. The unity of consciousness, by which we identify our selves, is said to be absent in MPD. Another symptom of MPD is significant amnesia which can't be explained by ordinary forgetfulness. In 1994, the American Psychiatric Association's DSM-IV replaced the designation of MPD with DID: dissociative identity disorder. The label may have changed, but the list of symptoms remained essentially the same." http://skepdic.com/mpd.html

"Dissociation is a mental process in which there is a lack of connection in thoughts, memories, feelings, actions or identity. While dissociating, certain information is not associated with other information as it normally would be. Some believe that dissociation exists on a continuum ranging from daydreaming to Dissociative Identity Disorder at the other. However there is great overlap between the different dissociative disorders (DD), including DID." http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=38077

"There are four major dissociative disorders:

  • Dissociative amnesia
  • Dissociative identity disorder
  • Dissociative fugue
  • Depersonalization disorder

Symptoms common to all types of dissociative disorders include:


Wednesday, April 18, 2007

My power point training on mental health and nutrition. 

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